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arsch abgefroren 2.11.2009
auch mein masochismus hat seine grenzen und bei verletzungen
hört bei mir der spass uff; über eine stunde stand ich vor der gedächtniskirche in
hurenhaften outfit(minirock & nuttenstiefel) und
um nicht zu erfrieren habe ich kondome an alkis verteilt
- der herr dom kam nicht;nüscht. es verwechseln manche ständig bdsm mit verarschung;doch
ich kämpfe weiter und lasse mich von solchen idioten ...
4 Kommentare, 232 Angesehen,
41 Stimmen
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GEKLAUTE FOTOS HIER IM PROFIL BEI DER PHANTASIE DOMINA 9.3.2007
VORSICHT-DIE FOTOS SIND VOM NETZ GEKLAUT !!!!!! VON EINER MODELSEITE AUS DEN USA FR DICKBUSIGE FRAUEN!!!!
GEBEN SIE BIGBUSEN EIN BEI GOGGLE UND SIE FINDEN NACH KURZER
ZEIT DIESE FOTOS !!!
AUFPASSEN- VIELE IDIOTEN UND SPINNER HIER BEI ALT. COM
0 Kommentare, 239 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,3.78 Gesamtpunktzahl
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No Mas, Relationships, Not What They Used To Be 17.9.2024
I've had my share of relationships in my life,
hell we all have. About six months ago, the relationship
I was in ended, it was, " both of our decision".ITrust
me, sex was not the issue. What was the issue (s) was something
that for the most part is the norm today. But something being
accepted as normal behavior does NOT mean its acceptable.
To the point, it used to be ...
1 Kommentare, 18 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
,1.74 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Meh 10.10.2023
When did the messenger stop letting new members message
people using points?
0 Kommentare, 186 Angesehen,
169 Stimmen
,0.10 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Needs updating 7.7.2023
Another discussion group that is well dated.
1 Kommentare, 192 Angesehen,
168 Stimmen
,0.25 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Experienced Advice 8.3.2023
I have been in many relationships over the course of my life.
Some short term and some long term, and have learnt many
lessons, not only from my own experiences but from those
around me going through similar things. <br><br>
Based on my experience I have found that a lot of people tend
to try and hold onto their EX in some shape or form. It might
be subtle or even direct, and in some ...
4 Kommentare, 89 Angesehen,
62 Stimmen
,1.26 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Trust 6.12.2022
How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle
0 Kommentare, 284 Angesehen,
262 Stimmen
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Trust 6.12.2022
How hard is it to trust again after breaking up in the lifestyle
1 Kommentare, 311 Angesehen,
285 Stimmen
,0.05 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Harshest Break Up 27.11.2022
Most of us have experienced a harsh breakup in our lives.
No breakup is pleasant, but some are much worse or cruel
than others. <br><br>
My worst was being dumped by my Mistress at the time. We were
living together in my house and had been for about a year.
i had to go away on a two-week business trip and was in chastity
the entire time. When i got home i sort of expected a nice ...
1 Kommentare, 127 Angesehen,
97 Stimmen
,0.55 Gesamtpunktzahl
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A lot about ghosting 20.11.2022
I see a lot of ghosting posts here
0 Kommentare, 285 Angesehen,
258 Stimmen
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NEED A MASTER NOW!!!! 30.6.2022
Just left a toxic vanilla relationship.... Now seeking
to be owned and stripped of any ounce of control.
10 Kommentare, 600 Angesehen,
512 Stimmen
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IT IS HARD 23.5.2022
WHO ELSE THINKS BREAKING UP IS HARD? IT IS ESPECIALLY HARD
WHEN YOU ARE HORNY LOL.
3 Kommentare, 564 Angesehen,
515 Stimmen
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finding something better can be hard 4.11.2021
After 3 years. She wanted someone closer in age. So we stopped.
A few weeks later, she texted that she was happy and had found
someone. Last night there was a knock on my door. I opened
it and she came in. Said she was just close and wanted to see
how I was doing. I replied fine. She the went on how much she
likes her new guy and He was introducing her to everyone,
calling all the time, checking ...
8 Kommentare, 286 Angesehen,
191 Stimmen
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Breaking up 22.9.2020
It is hard to do, what does everyone handle it?
1 Kommentare, 271 Angesehen,
245 Stimmen
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silk 13.9.2020
i love to facefuck
3 Kommentare, 403 Angesehen,
361 Stimmen
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Breaking up and being horny 14.8.2020
The toughest things is being use to having sex constantly
and then stopping all of a sudden. What keeps everyone going
during times like this?
2 Kommentare, 189 Angesehen,
158 Stimmen
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Breaking up with someone is hard! 11.7.2020
I bring this topic up because I have been there and it is hard
especially when you stop having the sex you once did. Anyone
ever deal with the same issue?
0 Kommentare, 79 Angesehen,
70 Stimmen
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Hard 7.3.2020
Breaking up is a hard thing especially when it comes out
of nowhere. I was talking with someone for over a year when
we were supposed to meet she stopped talking to me for 2 weeks.
Finally she talked to me saying we were going too fast and
she was scared. I found out later she was seeing another
Master and his slave let me know that. It took me a while to
get over her with lots of help from ...
2 Kommentare, 110 Angesehen,
86 Stimmen
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ITS HARD TO BEAK UP AND HORNY! 6.3.2020
HORNY WHEN ALONE AND NEED PUSSY!
1 Kommentare, 45 Angesehen,
42 Stimmen
,0.08 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Breaking up and horny! 29.2.2020
When u get alot of sex and end up breaking up?! How do you deal
with it?!
1 Kommentare, 52 Angesehen,
44 Stimmen
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Lost and found 6.2.2020
Looking this man here and his is
7 Kommentare, 205 Angesehen,
147 Stimmen
,0.12 Gesamtpunktzahl
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why it hurts 11.12.2019
or does it?
2 Kommentare, 30 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
,0.63 Gesamtpunktzahl
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why is it so hard to do 9.12.2019
i just want to lead you on a journey because i need the points
to interact.
10 Kommentare, 114 Angesehen,
83 Stimmen
,1.23 Gesamtpunktzahl
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SO SAD 21.11.2019
These are all slowly becoming nothing more that point grabs
7 Kommentare, 224 Angesehen,
178 Stimmen
,0.29 Gesamtpunktzahl
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FICTION OF IMAGINATION 7.10.2019
Break up pain is a fiction of our imagination. At first it
feels like the hardest the heart is going to bear but think
deep and you will understand that you are the one hurting
yourself. Break up happens because one person fall out of love and
the other person still tries to hold on. what hurt most is
holding on to someone who already has their heart somewhere
else already. The day the feelings ...
18 Kommentare, 207 Angesehen,
99 Stimmen
,3.67 Gesamtpunktzahl
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HORNY AND BREAKING UP! 12.7.2019
Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!
13 Kommentare, 105 Angesehen,
63 Stimmen
,2.60 Gesamtpunktzahl
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HORNY AND BREAKING UP! 12.7.2019
Breaking is hard when you are used to fucking alot!
5 Kommentare, 64 Angesehen,
41 Stimmen
,3.00 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Why breakup’s 2.7.2019
Hello All, In my experience as a dom.. I have ave very good lifestyle.
And still continue as well. However, had few instances
where sub moves out after the session or a good long relationship
and then never contacts or not yet n touch at all with any
of the doms. Is it that they are happy or they just quit? And
in another scenario other subs have kep healthy relationship
with dom after their good ...
11 Kommentare, 83 Angesehen,
48 Stimmen
,3.16 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Why do women cheat and betray a mans trust??!! 2.7.2018
As the title says. <br><br>
If you are a woman and you meet a man and tell him that it took
you 53 years to find him and you decide at your own will to
delete your profile .He is happy with that and believes
you but tells you not to cheat or betray his trust at any given
time and just tell him that you want to quit then do what you
want after that But what you do is you keep growing ...
31 Kommentare, 262 Angesehen,
75 Stimmen
,3.37 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Love is... 30.1.2018
It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression
you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably
the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common
sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people
don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also
are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and ...
11 Kommentare, 90 Angesehen,
27 Stimmen
,4.40 Gesamtpunktzahl
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oh lala 22.9.2017
Earn points by simply using our site and use them toward
upgrades, prizes, and even cash. <br><br>
The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage
other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual
gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip
you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches
in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans
and ...
4 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
,5.06 Gesamtpunktzahl
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should i call time 4.2.2017
hi should i call time on my relationship after 15 years im
the only one working i pay all the bills and she wont work
and is very lazy expects me to do all the cooking and that
after a 10 hour day work shift ive never got any money after
ive get payed she smokes so i have to cover that .........
13 Kommentare, 114 Angesehen,
42 Stimmen
,2.08 Gesamtpunktzahl
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The One that got away 26.1.2017
I read a post or a comment on this site i thought i'd get
something off my
chest.i met a cd in '06 when i joined this site and another, we
exchanged
emails he gave me his number, and i should have called but
didn't i'm
wishing i had. we had a few things in common crossdressing
and some other
things he looked hot and said he found me attractive.i called
him 4 ...
2 Kommentare, 71 Angesehen,
29 Stimmen
,1.84 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Does IM Play up for you. 28.12.2016
I have lots of trouble with IM..Here is a list of my issues..
* IM seems to crash.. * messages don't get through * I sometimes can't receive message from others in
IM * Point are not easy to get
What are your issues with IM ?
6 Kommentare, 65 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
,2.22 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Betrayed & used 4.2.2016
i was in a 4yr realationshp with a married man who was not
my Hubby but my Hubby knew about Him& let me visit Him.
He was my roleplay Daddy. It got very intense. Due to the
physical distance 2hrs dirve away, it was more of a mental
than a physical relationship. Then last year He decided
He was a sub not a dom. That He wanted to be dominated by a woman.
Whilst We were together We were always ...
6 Kommentare, 147 Angesehen,
27 Stimmen
,3.56 Gesamtpunktzahl
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blessing in disguise 14.7.2015
Breaking up can be a blessing. I recently was dumped and
after the heart ache found ALT.COM and have opened my world
up to new horizons. I have always dreamt fantasized about
BDSM and most likely would have never tried it but now have
the freedom to explore. Why not life is short
1 Kommentare, 67 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
,3.57 Gesamtpunktzahl
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To the Point 2.5.2015
Isn't being blunt the best way to go?
4 Kommentare, 57 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,1.29 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Feelings you neve new you had till they come to the suface 11.3.2015
I had a master for 6 months but he does not use me because of
his other slave. but he is mor like a dad than a master I choose
to leave this weekend as I have listend to people who I should
not have listened to but im now scared that I have hurt him
so much as he has not spoke to me much. it huts so much knowing
I may have made a mistake I don't know hot to fix it as
I have done this before and ...
0 Kommentare, 89 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
,2.80 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Where did you go? 31.10.2014
The other day I read a post by a lady who's Dom just up
and left her without saying goodbye...just disappeared.
Nor only is the a cruel way to break up but cowardly too. Hope
his balls shrivel up like a couple of raisins.
4 Kommentare, 143 Angesehen,
49 Stimmen
,4.25 Gesamtpunktzahl
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VANILLA SKIES OF PURPLE RAIN 9.6.2014
The vanilla skies were full of purple rain the day that MASTER
and I split. I was so hurtfully pained and saddened. The
man who filled my Vanilla Skies with my Purple Rain had taken
off his heroes cape. He had become a monster like those he
promised he was not like. Those who had tained my skies in
darkness, shades of dooming ebony. He lied, he snuck, he
had her--an intruder in my hearts place. I ...
7 Kommentare, 115 Angesehen,
23 Stimmen
,4.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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You only live once 26.8.2012
I know its a cliche but we only live once and the best way to
get over people is to either not care for them or move on quickly.
If people would just stay honest then there should never
be any reason for others to get upset. Usually dishonesty
and unrealistic expectations are the cause of breakups
dont you think? Although sometimes its not good for submissives
to think too much.
1 Kommentare, 81 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,2.70 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Who is the worst in this relationship? 11.6.2012
I admit that I was wrong for sleeping with the other women.
Those where meaningless and done out of need of affection
that my wife wouldn't give. Each of the girls offered
to bring in a girlfriend or a sister into the equation. One
of them even invited me to be the only man at a bachelorette
party. I did turn that down, because I was going to get married.
I have regretted getting ...
1 Kommentare, 118 Angesehen,
18 Stimmen
,2.58 Gesamtpunktzahl
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end of a friendship 23.4.2012
My friendship with an amazing young woman I met here has
ended. While not a "relationship" I actually
felt more comfortable with her than with many of my girlfriends.
It was an email friendship, I guess a pen pal type thing.
That it was an email relationship let me open up more than
I normally do and I actually found it easier to open up. It
being an email relationship also was a ...
1 Kommentare, 125 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,3.46 Gesamtpunktzahl
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JUST ANOTHER THURSDAY... 29.3.2012
i've been in and out of too many relationships. I've
had my heart broken and have been disappointed as well.
Over the years, for my hearts protection, i've accepted
that peoplel just leave. In life or death, they're
here today and gone tommorrow. So i enjoy the time i have
with them. I just got out of a relationship in which i was
engaged to a woman. Thought she would be the one. Circumstances ...
2 Kommentare, 118 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
,2.47 Gesamtpunktzahl
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break ups 19.1.2012
I know a few couples who start off with this life style, them
move into add others to their game, just to have them separate
some time down the track. As I am a sub, I wish to find a Mistress to serve 24/7 and to
only be a slave. i worry that it may turn into something more
on their part as it has done before, and in the end we went
our separate ways. Have other been here and how do you handle it
0 Kommentare, 54 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,2.45 Gesamtpunktzahl
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it is hard 17.1.2012
really
0 Kommentare, 25 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,1.51 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Going Slowly Mad! 20.9.2011
A new meaner way of getting to the truth out of KGB Generals
Then the water mask was to bring them into a small sound proof
room and strapped to a chair which was bolted into the wooden
floor at Guantanamo Federal Prison, while Hermon Karden
sound system of eight hundred speakers played the Barney
Song repeatedly until the Intelligence Office broke down
and gave all the information they knew to ...
0 Kommentare, 12 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
,3.81 Gesamtpunktzahl
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i have done ok 14.8.2011
i have broke up with my ex just over a year ago and we met on
here a couple thatsaid they was master and sub it turned
out that he wasnt but the sub wanted to learn more . we are
now together and my ex ( not devorcied yet ) is now with him
. sort of a swap i know . but me and new partner are more into
the bdsm than ever b4 . so what im saying is dont give up looking
you will find the right one
0 Kommentare, 69 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,1.84 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Slut Style!! 21.6.2011
I've been dating Jackson for 2 months now but I have
decided he's to boring in bed and I dont want to keep
sleeping around with his mates behind his back anymore.
So this morning after he left for work I thought I should
give his dad a heads up about what I planned to do. My boyfriends
dad is 63 and a retired alcoholic pervert that constantly
grabs my ass when I walk past saying things like ...
0 Kommentare, 127 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,4.87 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Traffic Death of a Friend 24.1.2011
How Too Kill a Witness
The Traffic Intersection
“Well Joe this is how we kill a Witness” said Officer
Michael’s to his new partner. “How many miles hours
does the average car drive here on the street?’ “30.” “Right, John!” “And how many feet are there in a mile?”
“There is 5840, feet in a mile.” “Correct!” “So that’s 30 mph times 5840 feet would ...
0 Kommentare, 21 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,3.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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New poly relationship, jealousy issues caused breakup 22.1.2011
I pretty much had to get out of my relationship with my Master,
as I felt I was being neglected. I was depressed, blamed
others for making me this way, when in truth I just pushed
myself out of somewhere that I want to be. I told my former
Master that this type of relationship wasn't after
the fact that I allowed the other girl to move in.
I am now in a partial hospitalization program, ...
4 Kommentare, 200 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,3.55 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Drugs? 17.1.2011
Nasty Trick Spanish fly in Mescal Tequila is what the mob did that Trine
Lopez didn’t know about when he poured him and his nine
friends a shot at a get together at his house while being
watched by hidden cameras. “Wow this shit is good! He said, as his eyes rolled back
in his head and his erection pushed hard against his sweat
suit pants. His friends looked at the large bulge and laughed
as ...
0 Kommentare, 44 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,2.45 Gesamtpunktzahl
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It's ReDiculus! 17.1.2011
Death Call Suicide Prevention Line 2011 Hello, Suicide Prevention, this is Tom, Can I Help You?
Oh, she did, and then what happened? Oh, how did that make
you feel? Oh, it did? Oh then what happened? Oh they did?
Oh how terrible, how did that make you feel? Oh I see, that’s
just so terrible! Oh, no, not that also? Then what happened?
Oh, how did that make you feel? Oh you are? Oh no I ...
0 Kommentare, 3 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
,2.40 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Unfortunately, it's part of life... 26.9.2010
I was in a relationship with a man that I met on this site.
We were together for the better part of a little over two
years.
When I met him, he had just gotten out of a marriage that he
didn't want and he was in the process of filing for divorce.
At the time, he was England, but we both made sure that we
would get to speak to each other frequently and we would
send emails. ...
10 Kommentare, 305 Angesehen,
36 Stimmen
,4.27 Gesamtpunktzahl
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"Greivance and loss in D/s" 27.3.2010
Grievance and loss in a relationship is a feeling I have
felt before in vanilla relationships, but only just managed
to define and understand with Myself and with the help of
loved Oones but something I wanted to share here amongst
Oothers that may already understand or can be aware of.
And for Me it’s the loss of My first submissive after 2
½ years in a D/s relationship.
As ...
2 Kommentare, 86 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,3.94 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Advice 29.1.2010
So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer
attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as
when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel
her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions
5 Kommentare, 123 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,1.99 Gesamtpunktzahl
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closure is 28.1.2010
giveing or reciveing closure at the end of a relationship
is so important , i can help heal both so as to not carry excessive
baggage or wounded heart into the next relationshp !
2 Kommentare, 90 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
,3.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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What Should I Do? 6.1.2010
I want to break up with my gf that i love, to go and have sex
with whoever i want. Should i just do it behind her back and
stay with her so i can have more sex later on.
5 Kommentare, 101 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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hows the best way to break up 12.9.2009
whats your opinion on the best way to end a relationship
with someone
3 Kommentare, 140 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
,2.09 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Best way to call it off with a Mistress? 22.6.2009
Is there an "offical way" to end it with Your
Mistress? Or is it like any other realationship?
3 Kommentare, 76 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,2.16 Gesamtpunktzahl
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how to 27.11.2008
can you tell me how the saftest way to break up with a posesive
woman is with out her going crazy i need to do this in a proper
maner and need help i, m not in love and she is not what i, m
looking for in a sub i need a real sub please help me if you
can
10 Kommentare, 168 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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feelings are real!!! 5.5.2008
I've come to realize lately that even though a woman,
or man may be ok with a "no strings" relationship,
their feelings may be the very thing hiding the truth from
themselves, rather than them from you. If I could give any
advise it would be this...what you're partner says
and what you hear may have no bearing on what they mean! tread
lightly in the ever ebing and flowing tides of human ...
2 Kommentare, 120 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,4.26 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Question 20.4.2008
Just wondering whats the worst storie someone has giving
you for breaking up with you?
16 Kommentare, 282 Angesehen,
22 Stimmen
,4.33 Gesamtpunktzahl
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trying to get my point across to my ex 10.3.2008
I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago. we stayed friends
and it worked well up until about 2 and a half months ago i
broke up with him because i found that i liked him more as
a brother type then a boyfriend he's a good guy. around
christmas he started get really clingy and started telling
me how much loves me and stuff. and not too long after i asked
him to stop taliking to me and to leave me ...
1 Kommentare, 123 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,1.94 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Over but not 20.1.2008
I had been with mybf/fiance of nearly a year when he suddenly
chose to break it off. Truth is I asked him if we were breaking
up and he said yes, but it made him feel sad, so I hastily negotiated
for 3 months since then he’s been an interesting person
and I’m wondering if he really wants to see me or is he just
going through the motions. Should I just release him from
this relationship or ...
5 Kommentare, 176 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,2.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Three Song set at the Strip Club 16.1.2008
There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called
Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was
in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking
lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside
having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy
night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged
hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...
1 Kommentare, 67 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,3.47 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Three Song set at the Strip Club 16.1.2008
There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called
Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was
in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking
lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside
having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy
night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged
hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...
0 Kommentare, 24 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
,1.73 Gesamtpunktzahl
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WE BREAK UP TO MAKE UP. 23.11.2007
Breaking up in any relationship/marriage is not the end
but in fact the beginning of the relationship/marriage.I
believe that nothing GOOD comes easy, we have to work extra
mile to earn it.A relationship/marriage without misunderstanding,
quarrel, Row or even a fight might not make real meaning for the partners.
For a relationship/marriage to be Rock solid, there must
be a shake up once a while ...
0 Kommentare, 28 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
,1.10 Gesamtpunktzahl
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break 1.11.2007
up break
0 Kommentare, 39 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
,1.04 Gesamtpunktzahl
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ffffffffffffff 6.5.2007
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2 Kommentare, 55 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,0.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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online fantasy 28.2.2007
why is it that there are so many pretending to want more than
an online fantasy and when you try to meet them they say it
is just more fun to keep it a fantasy thing and they never
intended to really meet anyone?
isn't there enough folks that want that? instead of
trying to trick those of us that want a real relationship?
6 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,5.18 Gesamtpunktzahl
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she beg for return 6.2.2007
i met a thai girl from a club , she is working as a pro. i book
her out a few night and slowly both of us fall in love with
each other . after a few weeks she went back to thailand and
i visit her a 2-3 trips and even buy ticket to let her come
to singapore 1 time every month . We have been 2gether for
nearly 2years . i dont mind of her past just wanna to love
her with all my heart . But ...
1 Kommentare, 164 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,2.32 Gesamtpunktzahl
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breaking up 27.1.2007
breaking up is never ez, especially when you love the person.
but sometimes you have to do what's right for you, which
means being open, honest, and upfront, because that's
what right for them.
2 Kommentare, 244 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,3.37 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Suck it up 26.12.2006
When you break up. If it is for the right reasons, just suck
it up and move forward. You WILL get over it
0 Kommentare, 138 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,0.98 Gesamtpunktzahl
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paths 16.12.2006
on two different paths we entered this life
our paths came together as husband & wife
In that beatiful forest your love made me see
just what I had all around me and what I could be
we walked down the path listening to nature's grand
chorus
always confident and hopefull for the future before us
as I looked into your eyes and on went these years
I never ...
1 Kommentare, 82 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,5.33 Gesamtpunktzahl
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got dumped- need closure 5.11.2006
A few months ago someone from this site contacted me. I was
hesitant since I live in PA and he in LA. But I really liked
his profile and his note to me so I figured it couldn't
hurt to start a dialog. I was very drawn to him (I am a sub)
and after a short time gave him my telephone number. Over
time a few red flags went up but I was unable to really pin
them down...just of a funny feeling ...
3 Kommentare, 333 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
,4.66 Gesamtpunktzahl
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CRAZY WOMEN 16.10.2006
OH MY GOD AFTER A HELLISH 9 MONTHS IN A LOVELESS RELATIONSHIP
IM FINALLY FREE AND SINGLE BUT EVEN THO AM LOVING DA THOUGHT
OF MY FREEDOM AND HAVING COMPLETE CONTROL BACK IN MY LIFE
I STILL FIND MYSELF THINKING ABOUT WHAT SHES UP TO AND WHATS
SHES DOING, HOW LONG WILL THIS KEEP GOING ON FOR?
2 Kommentare, 322 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,2.32 Gesamtpunktzahl
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How many times must we do this? 2.10.2006
Have had several Doms/Masters in the short time I've
been on Alt./Coven The hardest thing to remember is how
to not listen to the "sweet nothings"!I am a
sub. Just a warning to A/all please keep your eyes wide open..don't
cave. I think you should know each other a long time..like
in 6 months to a year..not a few months as some do. Self included.Lowers
her head... if there is one lie ...
2 Kommentare, 509 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,5.35 Gesamtpunktzahl
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secret lives brought to the open 27.9.2006
Anyone ever have to break up a relationship because one
or both of you were married or in a committed relationship
with someone who found out?
3 Kommentare, 199 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Won't you die tonight for love? 19.9.2006
When I look at you I want to destroy your smile.
It sits on your face like a lie.
You look good, I want to know the truth about you.
I want to get close to you.
When I do, you see that I see right through you.
Your heart beats like a small bird.
You know me well.
Thats why you can't handle me.
it hurts me to act the fool.
Pretend I don't see you for wot you are.
All of you ...
4 Kommentare, 270 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
,3.89 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Think 19.9.2006
Do you ever get the feeling that you are being strung along?
Dragging you by that string to your death? by wasting your
time with bullshit and lies that feel good? Do you ever get
that feeling? DO YOU? Ever at all?
Do you think you'll be here forever? Do you think that
wasting time is losing time? Do you ever think wasting time
is gaing on your death? Not daeth that doesn't touch
you, ...
2 Kommentare, 264 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,3.58 Gesamtpunktzahl
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dissapointed 13.9.2006
I came onto this site hoping to have a good time.Obviously
you women are sick depraved jumped up middle class or worse
truly evil middle and ruling class that worship lucifer
and selfishness.Or maybe you are just nasty full stop.I
mean you offer them everything on a plate
and they just treat you like dirt.I wanted to be a submissive
to some sick depraved cow.I mean you illuminati ........ ...
4 Kommentare, 151 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,0.42 Gesamtpunktzahl
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which is worse for you? 16.7.2006
unfortunately, it seems that most break-ups are not mutual.
it is usually one person breaking up with the other. i have
been on the receiving end a couple of times, and i have had
to tell someone i was dating i knew it wasn't going to
work between us.
having someone you have feelings for say they don't
feel the same way is horrible, but having to tell someone
who has feelings for you ...
0 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,3.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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So... it's all over 19.6.2006
We were together for a year n a half. I found myself commplitelly
changed in this relathionship. The old me, the one who was
cheating on guys and was such a free spirit was gone. And,
no metter how perfect he was, and belive me, he was, i yust
couldn't relax and enjoy the whole thing. My cheatings
in the previous life, life I had before him, were a safe place
for me. Made me feal like I ...
4 Kommentare, 392 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,2.56 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Living with your ex! 6.5.2006
My ex girlfriend and I broke up about two and a half months
ago. We noticed that we had drifted into a best 'friends
who cuddle' zone. We decided to end our relationship
so that we could put ourselves out there for others. We basically
only changed the title of our relationship and became flatmates
who still share a bed and cuddle and share all the bills except
we aren't sleeping ...
1 Kommentare, 133 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
,5.97 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Happens to us all 13.4.2006
... and I ran straight to here. Is that a bad thing? Should
I have waited longer?
1 Kommentare, 114 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,0.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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this is a test 3.4.2006
this is a test
1 Kommentare, 51 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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a clean way to dump a person 3.4.2006
this is a test, you can deny the submission
0 Kommentare, 115 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,1.69 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Being the other woman 25.3.2006
Its been 1 month 2 weeks and 4 days.
The hurt hasn't gone away and has only lessened with
the help of alcohol and drugs. It not the right way but the
only way to make it through for me.
To be the other woman in a man's heart is a dreadful thing.
He may not be with her physically, but with his heart she
is always there. And then when she does come back you have
no hope of ...
1 Kommentare, 167 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,3.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Is it my fault? 13.1.2006
Perhaps i should have seen it coming. Started this relationship
with a very strong bang and it ended just as quickly. Living
in two different areas doesn't help either and that
is what really started this whole break up. He was a very
determined man, but once his ego was brused that's
it the world was ending.
<br>
my daily journal was starting to get rather depressing,
the ...
1 Kommentare, 183 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,3.55 Gesamtpunktzahl
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DOMCOUPLE 8.1.2006
We prefer someone located close to us; however, would consider
someone willing to relocate to be with in a 24/7 relationship.
1 Kommentare, 242 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.53 Gesamtpunktzahl
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hard 8.1.2006
see and see!
0 Kommentare, 125 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,1.51 Gesamtpunktzahl
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treat with respect 23.12.2005
My pet peeve, when it comes to relationships, is people
who do not treat others with respect. If two people are in
a monagamous relationship, and one of them wants out, that
person should tell the other one, "hey, we're
through." In words, not by sleeping with another
person. Any comments?
3 Kommentare, 232 Angesehen,
23 Stimmen
,5.23 Gesamtpunktzahl
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It Was Inevitable 16.12.2005
She was too young, and I noticed too late. Did I fail her?
<br>
Her long red hair glissed in the sun. Her playful smile and
sparkling eyes were captivating. Her ample breasts barely
contained as she danced around in that skimpy little Gypsy
costume. That was the day I met her. When she told me she was
collared I was more than disappointed, but pleased that
she respected her ...
3 Kommentare, 153 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,3.00 Gesamtpunktzahl
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trust is so important 24.11.2005
after searching on this site for many years not knowing
what i wanted, i had tried being the sub.but that was not
for me, i hated to be told and humilated.i decided domme
was for me, ifound a sub after many years of searching, he
messaged me one nite and insisted he would be my sub.i had
told him no several times i knew in my heart he was not for
me.i set him a task and never thought he ...
0 Kommentare, 158 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,3.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Breaking up with your BESTfriend 21.11.2005
I just ended a relationship that never should have been
put into a position where anything short of family getting
physically harmed could effect it. He had been well WE had
been eachothers bestfriends for 9yrs or more. And we had
been through it all. We defined the meaning of truly being
a bestfriend. He saved my life more than three times. We
stood by eachothers side through everything. ...
2 Kommentare, 295 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
,3.28 Gesamtpunktzahl
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help... 20.11.2005
Hi, was married way too young. I was nineteen she was seventeen.
You guessed it got the girlfriend pregnent. What started
as an adorable though definetely casual fuck turned into
the only woman I've ever been able to say I loved.
<br>
Now almost twenty one, divorced. To make a long story short
she cheated and I became abusive. More than anything I feel
like I lost my virtue ...
4 Kommentare, 193 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,3.08 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Getting him back i needed him so 15.11.2005
His name was Maxamilian Wood. His friends called him Max,
Maximus or Maximum. I prefer Max. But, Maximum is humorous
when used with my last name. Anyway, the following is the
story of how I a long time exgirlfriend my name Baby came
back into His life after dissappearing.
<br>
My mind was a million miles away. The bar seemed like a good
idea when I left the house. But, I just sat ...
2 Kommentare, 129 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,3.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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A girl with fire, can't be around a drip like that!!! 9.11.2005
Following on from a previous article named free as a bird,
i really wanted to follow it up with some helpful advise.
This is for anyone who might have just come accross this
article. some bored housewife or lonely soul, who's
only escape was to join alt. Someone who's deep down
habouring a need to deflect from the norm but is themselves
trapped in what shell of a body the inhabit or ...
3 Kommentare, 506 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,3.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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free as a bird 8.11.2005
Breaking up is meant to be one of the hardest things to do,
but after leaving a relationship and feelin free and floaty
light its hard when mutual friends are waiting for you to
crumble..
Its sad when the other person pol vaults into the nearest
open arms bed and runs straight back tellin you what a mistake
she was...
breaking up is all about what you really needed to do for
a long time ...
2 Kommentare, 111 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,3.65 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Breaking up is hard to do poem 7.11.2005
Don't take your love away from me
Don't you leave my heart in misery
If you go then I'll be blue
'Cause breaking up his hard to do
<br>
Remember when I held you tight
And you kissed me all through the night
Think of all that we've been through
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
<br>
They say that breaking up is hard to do
Now I know, I know that it's true
Don't say ...
0 Kommentare, 53 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,1.50 Gesamtpunktzahl
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love stinks 2.11.2005
i was seeing a woman for 8 months and things did not work out
and she does not want to let go and makes me feel bad about
it should i
1 Kommentare, 92 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,1.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Safe Sex? 30.10.2005
Did you know 37, 000 Americans get infected with an std
everyday thats over 1500 people an hour. Basic facts before
u think about sex. Double up and contraceptives are ur best
friend.
<br>
<br>
Tips for people 
0 Kommentare, 200 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.28 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Breaking tips for Dummies 101 30.10.2005
Number 1
<br>
U got to identify just wtf is going wrong in the relationship
once u know that u can work from there.
<br>
Number 2
<br>
Can the problem be fixed
if not u got be straight forward on it dont be like i need time
<br>
Basic tips for dummies
1 Kommentare, 242 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,3.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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hurt 24.10.2005
I am sat here with eyes filled with tears my master/lover
has just ended our relationship after almost 3 years. I
feel such a mixture of things...but i feel so empty without
him and so very lost. My life wont b the same without him....
how can u go from loving someone with all u have heart soul
and body to chatty friends i dont if i can.......................
2 Kommentare, 213 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,3.08 Gesamtpunktzahl
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why is it so hard? 22.10.2005
i have no ideal myself however , there is a answer to this
question / need your feedbacks please people
1 Kommentare, 110 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,3.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Mistakes Volume 1 14.10.2005
Falling in love 1 Sometimes we make mistakes, and falling
in love is one of them before you get know someone.
Loosing your temper2 Being in control of your every action
is what most Dom's do. But anger is no friend to a Dom.
I got so angry with my last sub, I did some pretty stupid things.
And I do apolligize for my actions.
Never take them for granted3 I made this mistake too. ...
0 Kommentare, 76 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,3.43 Gesamtpunktzahl
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just brake up... 7.10.2005
So??? I just brake up??? Why r u just kidding, n saying it
was cool...But im crying...My heart is braking...
<br>
It hurts so much...
2 Kommentare, 240 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,2.32 Gesamtpunktzahl
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love from above 3.10.2005
today i've no need for word to show how i feel , the thing
i knew is that i lo9ve youy morethan word can ever say.
0 Kommentare, 33 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
,1.73 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Dumping an abusive Fiance 9.9.2005
I was engaged once and when I finally realized how wrong
she was for me, I took a couple of days to get my thoughts together.
I planned a time when it was just the two of us. I simply came
out and told her that I realized I wasn't happy and wanted
to end this before we each had any more invested in the relationship.
I expected her to be mad, and she was. I never let myself get
mad ...
4 Kommentare, 224 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,2.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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cheating 23.8.2005
If the relationship ended because of cheating, kiss it
goodbye, eventhough you might be lucky enough to get back
with the person the first mistake you make would send everything
downhill.... This draws a question to me, is the real reason
ppl cheat on eachother is because they are emotional unstable???
2 Kommentare, 196 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,3.93 Gesamtpunktzahl
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What now 7.8.2005
I had been a faithful submissive for a long time My dom stated
that he loved only me but could not commit to a steady relationship
of living together (not marriage ) He has now dumped me once
again and i feel so empty, hurt, and fearful to trust any
man to get too close to me again. As i am a loving person this
is very difficult for me. I live a long way away from anywhere
which makes it ...
3 Kommentare, 286 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,4.98 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Trying to be someone i'm not..... 31.7.2005
This girl (wyld)just recently seperated from her Master
after being with Him and His alpha for 2 years. she found
that she was trying to be someone she just isn't. He
wanted a bisexual and wyld just isn't bisexual -- yes,
she is learning how to please a Man better than she had been
taught but wyld is -- and will always be -- lesbian. The break
up came after a month of fighting between wyld ...
0 Kommentare, 127 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,4.22 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Strange encouter 18.7.2005
After meeting with a person i met, local bar...we had some
wild times, details arn't necessary; however this
person has become obsessive...I am not a sub, to be clear,
just wanted to know how anyone would handle breaking free
of this sexual hold?
2 Kommentare, 149 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
,0.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Being Released 15.7.2005
i write for therapy, i write for sanity and realize opinions
are only my own.....
<br>
<br>
Being Released
<br>
<br>
What happens to the heart when a slave is released by her
Master does it break does it feel relief or perhaps does
it feel numb to nothing at all? Only a few days ago, I was released
by a Master whom I thought I would ...
3 Kommentare, 282 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
,5.63 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Talk 13.6.2005
My master and i have just been through the most awful 2 months.
And inever want to go throught it again.
We almost lost all that we had built up over 2 years. Just
because we didnt talk about the simple things that get so
easy get mixed up. So if u feel that its goin off the lines
talk to each other and stop it before u lose it all. We where
lucky and have managed ( i hope) to save what we ...
2 Kommentare, 333 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
,4.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Cheat or break up ?? 14.4.2005
hmmm... that's the question of the century but the
obvioust thing to do is to.......break up!!! don't
let it linger on any longer... if u do it once and get away
with it you'll probably think of it again...
0 Kommentare, 141 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,1.72 Gesamtpunktzahl
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toss me a life savoir 9.4.2005
I love a man who could care less and it hurts so much. I had
his child and he left. And while I'm not sad for the baby,
he really would be a mess as a father, I'm so sad for me.
I wish there was a way to erase his memory from my body because
it hurts so much. On our first date he rubbed my ankles and
I was lost to him after that. And then we fucked and I never
got it so good as when ...
1 Kommentare, 203 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,2.66 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Dan's song - Gone 19.3.2005
Forever, forever, forever.. Trust and loved and cherished
and never and never and never.. seemed to think I'd
fall
Deeper and deeper and know,
<br>
So I been to the end, things you can't comprehend..
once again I burn, now I feel the burn
for the chance in the world for you to come to terms,
I am just me,
can't you just - see me.
<br>
So clear so clear so ...
0 Kommentare, 135 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
,0.50 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Torn Apart 10.3.2005
I was seeing Master since November. I declared that I was
his right before Christmas. He would come and visit me every
single weekend, and bring gifts for me every time. He was
so sweet, yet, sooooo kinky and dirty to me. I enjoyed him
both as his slave girl, and as his girlfriend in our nilla
life. And yes, our relationship was more nilla then anything,
due to me having kids. It was ...
8 Kommentare, 656 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
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Forever, doesn't mean FOREVER 3.3.2005
I dated the love of my life for over 2 years. I lived and depended
on him, but now it's over and I have nothing. the breakup
was completely my fault and had been a long time coming.
I now had to move back in with my parents with no car, no money,
and no job. I am screwed.
8 Kommentare, 514 Angesehen,
27 Stimmen
,2.61 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Time to Explore 22.2.2005
Ater bieng a couple for so long i thought she was my lover
and my best friend. Little did i know was about to happen
, after living in each others back pockets , trying to
buy the family home and thinking of bringing children into
this world i awoke one morning to hear the words i do not love
you any more.To say i was not shattered was an understatment,
after realizing my life was turning ...
0 Kommentare, 217 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,3.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Unspoken Words 9.2.2005
Forgive me my Lady for being such a dumbass
<br>
Why should I forgive you
<br>
You shouldn't
<br>
Damned straight
<br>
I implore my Lady, that You will find Mercy in Your will for
my wretchedness. Please don't leave me out here on
my own. Please don't leave me without hope.
<br>
You damned yourself fool. Did you know Me so little to ...
3 Kommentare, 413 Angesehen,
28 Stimmen
,3.96 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Closure - When enough is enough!! 25.1.2005
“You learn that kisses aren’t contracts, even while in
the presence of their promises. You learn to build all of
your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain
for plans. You learn that even sunshine burns if you get
too much. So plant your own garden and decorate your own
soul. Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
You learn that you really can endure, ...
4 Kommentare, 246 Angesehen,
22 Stimmen
,4.69 Gesamtpunktzahl
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When ur the innocance victim, " How do you move on and be friends?" 16.1.2005
About a Year ago me and my ex broke up its cuz i never said I
love u. He told me it and I was speechless, but later that
week I find out he's at a friends house that i met online
and partied with. They become a item and date for awhile.
It doesn't work out so he comes back to me. As a fool i
did but to only end up losing him again to ur cousin/best
friend. By this time around I was ready to ...
3 Kommentare, 175 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
,2.61 Gesamtpunktzahl
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It's Never A Waste If You Learn More of Yourself 15.1.2005
I met the most wonderful Dom. We emailed and then chatted
on the phone and eventually came to play. Initially our
time together was sporadic due to work and his other social
activities. The more we talked the more we grew closer or
so I thought. Throughout the 1 1/2 years we were together
there were many conversations and alot of sharing. But
after all the time i realized that our time ...
1 Kommentare, 361 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
,4.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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For that stubborn sub 14.1.2005
I finally thought I met my perfect sub. He was a lot different
from the type I was used to.At first we talked on the phone
every night then finally we started playing together.The
passion and desire we shared for each other was the greatest
I or he had ever felt.He was then sent back home for a month.
The promises he made well he didn't keep any of them.I
haven't heard from him in awhile ...
1 Kommentare, 185 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,3.65 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Confused ... as always. 8.1.2005
Generally i just think I'm a sucker.
been played more times than I can remember. it gets to thepoint
where they all just meld together into one big confusing
mess.
It get's harder as I get older... 33 yrs old and I've
never actually experienced a loving relationship. it
tends to put you off of ever finding what you really need.
My last relationship lasted 5 yrs. the longest I've
had. ...
2 Kommentare, 256 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
,3.51 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Pain turns to hatred 3.1.2005
I havent opened up to another person in a very long time .
And now that its over , somthing else is stirring inside
me . Its called anger , hatred the most vile and destructive
emotions inside me . It begs to be let out , to run free and
to protect me from the pain . I know i will feel guilty and
remorse if I follow through with the ideas running in my
mind . Its hard to fight a part of ...
3 Kommentare, 166 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,1.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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the battle rages inside me 1.1.2005
I am slowly getting over the break up of myself and my ex owner
. I never have been one for a good break up , never once was
i rational or calm when my emotions are steped on . But this
sets up a major conflict with in myself . My ego and pride
and self worth precive the danger the rejection abondoment
and the only thing that part of me wishes to do is strike back
to defend myself. I know ...
1 Kommentare, 103 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,3.63 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Time does heal 22.12.2004
11 Months ago I sat red eyed and exhausted a very real and
dear D/s relationship had ended and landed me rather heavily
on my ass.. I hadn't done anything wrong.
<br>
I decided and it was right for me to back off from the scene
and concentrate on me and important real life issues..
<br>
We remained friends and communicated and then there came
a point when I took the ...
4 Kommentare, 577 Angesehen,
65 Stimmen
,4.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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I gotta hole in Me now.... 18.12.2004
She has been My life for 6 1/2 years, and a week ago Monday
Our relationship ended.She is everything to Me, the air
I breath...world revolved around making Her happy...but
alas after years of sexual deprivation...I just couldnt
take it any longer. I finally had to tell Her that I needed
to smell Her smell, and feel the touch of Her hands, the heat
of Her mouth on My....
Now We are still ...
2 Kommentare, 375 Angesehen,
33 Stimmen
,2.60 Gesamtpunktzahl
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short and intense 10.12.2004
In the past two months our worlds have become intertwined
like nothing I have experienced.
I suppose you grew used to me letting my world revolve around
you, and yours mine.
Your selflessness and even self-destructive nature wasn’t
a problem since I was like an fledgling and needed everything
done for me. Now I have a strong desire to be able to do for
myself, as well as for you. ...
0 Kommentare, 176 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
,3.89 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Longest delay in a split 6.12.2004
This is my first article written, and it's not really
much. The last actual relationship I was in went on five
months longer than it should have and the chick never bothered
to dump me then. That was a lot of time wasted, wasn't
it?
1 Kommentare, 101 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
,1.36 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Break 5.12.2004
Don't you hate it when you break up and your partner
says "its just that I think you are doing ________"
like they think they know what you're thinking and
tell you how you feel.
<br>
Irritates the hell out of me. The last time, we had only gone
out for 2 months, I'm quite sure she didn't know
how I thought.
0 Kommentare, 73 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Making love by the head stone 29.11.2004
Making love by the head stone
The graveyard is a parable of
Where we are soon to belong
Dripping traces of lifes
Dead history
To many seems sick
I think this makes the spirits sing
<br>
Shh..
A new life being spawned
The silence so long
Orgasm prolonged
The ground is breathing
In its heaving
Becoming one with everything
<br>
Following down these ...
3 Kommentare, 109 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
,6.62 Gesamtpunktzahl
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blue story 29.11.2004
have you ever felt that by talking to someone you never met
before, that he is so special.... have you?
have you ever felt sometimes being surrounded by others
24/7 that you are so lonely, haveyou?
did you wish sometimes to close your
eyes and never be able to open them again, did you?
have you ever imagine yourself elsewhere, far far away
from where you really are, haveyou?
...
6 Kommentare, 207 Angesehen,
23 Stimmen
,5.23 Gesamtpunktzahl
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2004-11-18
breakin up hurts n nastily painful.it doesnt matter who
dumped who, whether u r heart-broken or relieved its over...the
end of any serious relationship, means a dream is shattered......
it takes time for the sharp pain to recede...but eventually
you'll wake up one morning n forget to be miserable...
Kommentare, Angesehen,
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Who's got the BREAK UP HOW TO BOOK?? 17.11.2004
So you start your mental laundry list of why – at first you
resist even considering it because it feels so rotten,
so distinctly painful. But eventually, you get enough
items on this mental list. There’s that time, and that other
time, and the deep inconsiderate behavior. And perhaps
there’s all these times in your mind when you were made to
feel guilty and took the blame.
...
0 Kommentare, 177 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
,5.58 Gesamtpunktzahl
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"breakin up" 17.11.2004
its like a beautiful rose plant...u once planted n it grows, healthy
beautiful roses.After a while....it became weak...the
flowers died n lost its shine....n its out of control....coz
somethin is just not right...dont panic...if u try to refresh
it again....n u failed...just live with it coz thats reality, the
truth hurts but when a relationship goes blank.......there
are no powers to ...
0 Kommentare, 56 Angesehen,
32 Stimmen
,6.52 Gesamtpunktzahl
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what should i have done 15.11.2004
ya about 5 months ago i was in a relation ship with a girl that
was a total bitch to me...and not in a good way...she thought
she could do anything she wanted but if i did the same stuff
she was doing she would freak...like i was not alowed to
have any friends because she thought i was going to cheat
on her...theres a lot more stuff but anyway i ended up leaving
her in her home town and ...
0 Kommentare, 54 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
,3.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Just some thoughts 10.11.2004
No one can tell you what hides in the heart and soul of another
person. It is doubtful that even that person can truly tell
you what or why they do the things that they do. After my wife
of 12 years disappeared I was suddenly given a great deal
of time to do some serious soul searching and reviewing
of our “relationship”. After a full year of despair, confusion,
and sleepless nights ...
0 Kommentare, 86 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
,7.89 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Its so hard 4.11.2004
Why Is it that its so hard to break up and try and find another
person why cant it be easy I wish it was anyone have any suggestions
on this
1 Kommentare, 53 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,4.82 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Try Honesty 30.10.2004
All my life I have had trouble ending a relationship. Being
a born pleaser, I never wanted to cause hurt. But now I am
going to admit something that I had a hard time even admitting
to myself: "a sharp wound heals much faster than a
jagged tear." Women have a tendency to not be able
to end a relationship smoothly. Fax is fax. They will go
six ways to sundown to keep from coming right out ...
3 Kommentare, 141 Angesehen,
42 Stimmen
,7.93 Gesamtpunktzahl
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What a Bit@h! 14.10.2004
The day after i broke up with my ex she slept with my friend on a field.... do girls do this often or is she just a super bitch... i dont know?!
4 Kommentare, 88 Angesehen,
39 Stimmen
,6.57 Gesamtpunktzahl
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it's a hard thing 13.10.2004
Nobody likes to be dumped, it's the bottom line! If
your a chick and ure getting over a hot relationship, you
start thinking if things can be the way they were. Face the
facts he/she dosen't want you anymore try your best
to find another mate and GET OVER IT!
0 Kommentare, 57 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
,6.31 Gesamtpunktzahl
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When your Sub chooses to take off her collar 12.10.2004
Hmm, should I not be phased, or be emotionally hurt by my
sub walking away? I was, and am. but why, this deeply? I think
it is because in any solid relationship. Well let's
break it down. Why? Hm I was told I was not consistant, I was
not strict enough, and hard enough to truely break her down
to the level of submission she felt she needed. Hmm and yet
she asked to be collared, not ...
2 Kommentare, 160 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
,4.89 Gesamtpunktzahl
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So bad yet so good! 11.10.2004
In answer to redass1979 which said:
Why in the hell do people keep their significant others
around when you come in here and get all this great stuff.
I dont care how bad you treat one another. . There is no reason
to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship
if you are on here doing this shit.
<br>
Well you're here aren't you? doesn't that
put you in the same ...
0 Kommentare, 34 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,5.57 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Getting Over the Pain (trying to be friends after a breakup) 11.10.2004
Human emotions are not always your friend!
It is only when people learn that nothing in life is worth
an emotional distress to yourself, that they will begin
to live life to the fullest.
People come and go, relationships come and go. sure there
are good times and bad times, but remembering the good times
and moving on is better than remembering the bad times and
wallowing in your own ...
0 Kommentare, 75 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,3.93 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Why won't he say its over?? 11.10.2004
To CowboyAngel
He's playing you like a chump that's why he won't
say it's over!
Keep ya hanging around just in case his other ventures don't
work out!
Be strong and tell him goodbye, you don't deserve what
he is putting you through. Unless of course you just like
being a puppet on a string!!
0 Kommentare, 40 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,4.50 Gesamtpunktzahl
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breaking up 11.10.2004
Well then desiredelf, if your sub has realized what she
truly wants and is trying to come back, and you did say you
love her, then why still carry the grief?
Just consider yourself the winner of the tug-o-war and
maybe in time she will explain to you why she handled things
the way she did before she left.
The ball is in your court now, I hope you handle it well.
0 Kommentare, 23 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,4.02 Gesamtpunktzahl
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response to: My last boyfriend 11.10.2004
Well mahalcock what did you really expect?
People more so than not, seem like a dream come true when
you first meet them, but can turn into a nightmare soon afterwords.
People so often get boared with their other half and think
the grass is greaner on the other side. Even quicksand doesn't
look like quicksand until you step in it!
Ever heard of spice? You should have tried to put some ...
0 Kommentare, 51 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,4.31 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Response to: nude college 11.10.2004
ok veevij, and screwing the mentor is bad how?
If it gets them good grades, I say go for it!!!
0 Kommentare, 24 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Still Longing For Her ..... 11.10.2004
It's not so much what you did to deserve what happened
to you, but be thankful you have fond memories, and move
on!
0 Kommentare, 45 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,2.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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There is no reason to be in a real relationship with someone if you are on here 6.10.2004
Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another.. There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. I dont care how bad someone treats you...its nothing but complete death for your partner...finding out that no matter what you do ...
2 Kommentare, 85 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Re: break clean or not 4.10.2004
A clean break is the best thing for everyone. Lingering feelings will only make a sad situation worse, so moving on with your life would be better in the long run.
0 Kommentare, 55 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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RE: Getting over the pain 30.9.2004
Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs...
As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on...
Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...
0 Kommentare, 79 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,5.19 Gesamtpunktzahl
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getting over the pain 12.9.2004
I have recently broken up with someone who was very dear
to me, for reasons that I won't mention..I find it very
difficult to make the transition from being this beautiful
"couple" to now being just "friends"..I
am at my wits end, trying to find the happy medium in which
to conduct this relationship..I miss him terribly, but,
can't continue either..the relationship has not
beneficial to ...
1 Kommentare, 81 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
,7.34 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Still Longing For Her ..... 28.8.2004
I hate to admit it, but I still miss her. I long for her. My
heart aches for the sight, the touch, the feel, the passion
of her.
<br>
My spirit which once soared like an eagle in anticipation
of serving and has crashed to the ground. Ipleasing her t
lays on the side of life's highway, crushed by the daily
grind of having to go on without her.
<br>
At night I yearn ...
0 Kommentare, 46 Angesehen,
21 Stimmen
,6.10 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Re: What Happens When Honesty Fails 6.8.2004
Alan340....Let her be, if she is in the hospital for attempting
her life, she will get the help she needs. Any contact from
you at this point will send her back to the place she was prior
to entering the hospital. At this point you just need to
distance yourself from her. Based on what you say, it can't
get better, it can only get worse. She is not balanced and
may need medication to ...
0 Kommentare, 49 Angesehen,
49 Stimmen
,8.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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What happens when honesty fails? 3.8.2004
I was with a woman for years, at first everything was great.
After a couple of months in r/l things started to fall apart.
When we were fighting it was always my fault, a few hours
later it was all her fault. I was honest with my intentions
and what I was looking for from the start. I never hid my dark
side and in some ways she enjoyed that part of me. She used
to tell me it was my fault ...
0 Kommentare, 45 Angesehen,
34 Stimmen
,7.73 Gesamtpunktzahl
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when a relationships end. 18.7.2004
when two people part life can be very truamtic you feel unloved
uncared for that no one wants you.depression can set it
, work performance goes down hill and boredom takes over
diet goes up the creek and life doesnt feel worth carryon.but
why has it ended is it due to one person not fufilling the
needs of the other or has one strayed or is the biggest cause
of the lot money problems or ...
0 Kommentare, 40 Angesehen,
60 Stimmen
,8.31 Gesamtpunktzahl
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response to ex-husband missed out... 13.7.2004
So why were you such a prude? It is funny all the sex people
talk about sex and the reason for infidelity but hardly
ever the solution to it or preventing it. You are a good example,
had you not been such a prude and been sexually active with
your husband, worked at sex with him, being interested
in it, being creative, playing, and having fun with it,
you could have notonly saved a ...
1 Kommentare, 98 Angesehen,
58 Stimmen
,7.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Tears without trust? 7.7.2004
There were tears upon my leathers,
Tears upon her face
Tears of anger and denial
Of shame and loss and disgrace
The lie in which I had caught her
She knew would cost her dear
She knew what I now had to do
The words even I could not bear to hear.
The collar, worn around her neck
She wore with joy so well
She knew her neck would soon be bare
By my eyes alone, could ...
0 Kommentare, 34 Angesehen,
45 Stimmen
,8.63 Gesamtpunktzahl
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When is a slave not a slave? 28.6.2004
I recently had what i thoght was a male slave who's only
wish was to serve the master. Our agreement was that if I
could not look after my slave for any length of time or the
slave proved unreliable then I would release him to find
a new master. Owing to a sudden unexpected change of job
i was placed in a position that my free time no longer was
compatable with that of my slave. Doing the ...
0 Kommentare, 73 Angesehen,
47 Stimmen
,7.32 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Re: Do We Really Deal With Lies In A Breakup 24.6.2004
Having our trust violated is always painful but having
it violated within the lifestyle is more so due to the very
nature of a bdsm relationship. While closure acts as a catalyst
for moving on it's isn't always attainable when
dealing with someone who has been less than truthful with
us. Sometimes we simply need to accept that we will never
know what motivated someone who we trusted to ...
0 Kommentare, 94 Angesehen,
50 Stimmen
,8.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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ex girlfriend 14.6.2004
me an my ex are friend i got mad at her and left her house a while
later she called me crying because i left she said i was teh
only shure thing in her life shes driving me nuts
0 Kommentare, 70 Angesehen,
33 Stimmen
,1.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Re: Limbo 1.6.2004
I agree with you totally that it is hard. I had a similar situation
where it was more her fault but I moved out, and then told
her I still cared about her. I gave her a month to decide how
she wanted to go about things. Well, in all honesty I got
off the phone about an hour ago, and I had to tell her. She
tried telling me that she loved me and gave "kiss"
sounds, but yet she couldn't ...
0 Kommentare, 43 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,5.83 Gesamtpunktzahl
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reply to I Love her but 7.5.2004
Ever see the Seinfeld episode where they discuss the "pre-emptive"
breakup? Might be the case here. Ask yourself - Do you really
love her? You say you were thinking of breaking up with her.
Did she simply beat you to the punch?
Just a thought or two
0 Kommentare, 43 Angesehen,
33 Stimmen
,5.26 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Limbo 5.5.2004
I have recently come out of an ltr. Things were wonderful
until I had to deal with some difficult personal stuff in
my head. Then, I began to withdraw a little, I guess a little
down. During this period, my girlfriend, who I truly loved, decided
to end things as I wasn't giving her the attention she
wanted. She did this on the telephone, (shitty but true),
but gave me a month in case I ...
2 Kommentare, 71 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
,6.80 Gesamtpunktzahl
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How to break up with out hurting someone 28.4.2004
I am in a serious relationship but I have found I want to do
so much more sexually and explore more and the girl I am with
is so sweet and innocent that I really care for but I am ready
to move on and explore. How do I break it off with her and remain
friends and not hurt her.
0 Kommentare, 53 Angesehen,
41 Stimmen
,4.73 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Sir William.........Thank you 26.4.2004
"Breaking Up"
Two of the harshest, words a person faces.Especially
so,
in this "lifestyle", where one's mind
, body and soul belongs to another.
To be embraced, physically and mentally by your Master's
words, His touch, His actions, His whole being alone.
Although i heard those words, and felt the stinging pain
and cried for what seemed an eternity...
i also grew within that time, ...
0 Kommentare, 81 Angesehen,
32 Stimmen
,8.30 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Reply To: I'm Stupid 14.4.2004
Stupidity doesn't factor in here. It sounds as though
you are having great difficulty in accepting the fact that
your relationship with this man is over. You stated that
during the relationship he criticized you repeatedly
and wasn't a supportive and caring element in your
life. Sometimes in situations such as this it's helpful
to take stock and to access and define the relationship
the ...
0 Kommentare, 49 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,5.83 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Reply To "Why?" 14.4.2004
People who spilt up only to return to a past partner repeatedly
are engaged in perpetuating a pattern. This is typically
due to a lack of any real closure or an unwillingness on the
part of one or both partners (typically both) to realize
that they have long-term issues that may or may not be something
they can resolve. We see this in abusive relationships.
People will frequently wonder ...
0 Kommentare, 50 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,3.64 Gesamtpunktzahl
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HOW DO I BREAK IT OFF 14.4.2004
I've had an off and on relationship for the past couple
years and now she wants to take it to the next step and get
engauged. i do love her and i told her that i wanted to also,
even though i decided later that i didn't I'm just
not ready for that big of a step. i want to get out in the world
and explore more before i settle down later in life. i really
have no idea how to go about letting ...
0 Kommentare, 67 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
,1.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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A Lack Of Closure 13.4.2004
While I am very much aware that life is a classroom, some
lessons aren't pleasant and are in fact painful. Knew
there were risks when I got involved with my first real time
D/s relationship. Thought I had covered the bases but didn't
bank on being outright lied to about his marital status.
I am processing what happened but am having some difficulty
in that I am challenged in gaining any ...
0 Kommentare, 47 Angesehen,
34 Stimmen
,5.04 Gesamtpunktzahl
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love of my life ran off ! 11.4.2004
all of my life i wanted someone like brandy.now she ran off
with my children and we rarely speak.some days it's
hard breath without her as my fresh air of life.baby if you
ever see this i love you so much!!!nobody can ever replace
you in my heart.i miss you, and our children.love always, me...
0 Kommentare, 34 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,3.98 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Don't come over with out warning 30.3.2004
Just a small tip. If you are reently broken up do not show
up at their place randomly. I dont care what excuse you have,
whether its that you are looking for a missing tooth brush
or that your drunk. At best your ex thinks you are even more
pathetic, at worst they call the police.
<br>
I have an ex who continues to show up at my place drunk, even
though we broke up about 3 months ...
0 Kommentare, 65 Angesehen,
41 Stimmen
,8.18 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Re: How to say Goodbye 3.3.2004
You're kidding right? Love...that word is tossed
around far too carelessly. If that person "Loved"
you there would be no need to say goodbye as a result of lying
cheating using etc. Sweetheart face it they did not love
you. So saying goodbye is the easiest thing to say if you
truly were lied to etc. You cannot possably tell me that
you love someone that you cannot trust because the two ...
0 Kommentare, 30 Angesehen,
47 Stimmen
,8.52 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Stupidty 2.3.2004
I split up with my girlfriend some six months ago now for
another woman, and realised very shortly afterwards what
an idiot I'd been - my original girlfriend truly was
the one for me and I couldn't hack being with anyone
else. So I split up with my new girlfriend because she didn't
deserve someone whose heart wasn't into it, and now
bitterly regret not having thought things through properly ...
0 Kommentare, 38 Angesehen,
58 Stimmen
,7.35 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Response to "It Just Doesn't Get Any Easier" 1.3.2004
I have to wonder if it is the passion you love the most about
your relationship, and if that is the reason why you are
still wanting her even after all of the hard times. Huge
arguements are just as passionate as hot sex, and for some
people, passion of any type is a need. If you could find passion
with someone, without the fighting, perhaps you could
be even happier than you were with ...
0 Kommentare, 213 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
,6.67 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re: how not to break up 9.2.2004
your 'article' is a veiled excuse to tell a really
crap joke, right?
0 Kommentare, 38 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
,5.45 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : to good to be true 9.2.2004
sorry, this isn't really anything to do with breaking
up..
<br>
..however, this might have been better under the category
of 'dating' or 'building a relationship'
- where it would actually be relevant !
0 Kommentare, 37 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
,6.65 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship 9.2.2004
sorry to hear your troubles..
..it's plain that the experience has affected you
<br>
it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same
rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication.
<br>
trouble meeting bdsm partners ??
it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people
put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to
do is ...
0 Kommentare, 56 Angesehen,
33 Stimmen
,7.19 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : what i miss most 9.2.2004
great article !!
<br>
i am keeping this to explain to others why people enjoy a
bdsm life.
<br>
it's evocative of the depths that the master/sub explore
and how it really allows people to share and express their
desires - without being sordid.
<br>
thank you
0 Kommentare, 44 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
,6.03 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : Leave the person with dignity, grace and respect 9.2.2004
thank you for the great article..
<br>
i think it's not a thought just for ending a relationship,
but a guide throughout.
0 Kommentare, 51 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
,7.39 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : Don't give Doms a bad name re : Don't give Doms a bad name 9.2.2004
sorry to hear what happened to you, but if he's that
immature, then you're best away from him.
<br>
your article shows that a d/s relationship is like a vanilla
relationship and is based on the same rules - honesty and
communication.
<br>
unfortunately, people in a d/s relationship are only human
and carry their frailties with them ["wherever you
go, there you are"] ...
0 Kommentare, 48 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
,5.92 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : giving her away 9.2.2004
great article.
<br>
i think you did the right thing, namely not trying to 'force'
the relationship and having it end badly for both of you.
<br>
bravo, monsieur !!
0 Kommentare, 63 Angesehen,
18 Stimmen
,6.26 Gesamtpunktzahl
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more? 9.2.2004
well, it sounds very fishy to me..
..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based
on honesty and communication.
<br>
considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be
the 1st sub to contact him or the last.
<br>
if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs
this for various reasons that he does not have to explain"
refers to, then he's not being honest ...
0 Kommentare, 80 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
,6.00 Gesamtpunktzahl
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This may seem rude but... 4.2.2004
I cannot believe what I am reading! Ladies! What the hell
is wrong with you? You meet some guy online, and decide that
H/he is the be all and end all of your world? This goes out
to those people that got "dumped" and didnt
really get together RT much. Please...Where the hell are
your brians? Did Y/you check them at the door when Y/you
came home from work or something? the world ...
0 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
61 Stimmen
,9.59 Gesamtpunktzahl
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need help please. 3.2.2004
I am a submissive, searching for a Dom to meet in r/t. I recently
met a Dom for coffee and a brief get to know each other meeting.
<br>
My delimma is; how do i tell him he is not what i am looking
for. I know that this was only the first meeting, and that
things might improve, but i do not honestly feel that he
and i would make a proper match.
<br>
Help, how do i ...
0 Kommentare, 40 Angesehen,
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Re:Breaking Up Without Hurting 2.2.2004
Becoming a couple is a process that occurs over time. Uncoupling
is also a process. Disengagement from one another after
sharing your hopes goals and dreams can be as upsetting
as losing someone to death, if not more so as it involves
a sense of deliberate abandonment.
Typically the break up is initiated by one party leaving
the other feeling rejected. A good way to proceed is to put ...
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Do it with respect and face up to what you've done.... 25.1.2004
my Master just broke up with me this weekend and i'm
heart broken about it. It's not just the fact that He
left, its how and why He did it. A past ex slave/girlfriend
of His came back to town and He immediately dumped me to be
with her. This is from the Man who only a few days earlier
was telling me that i would belong to Him forever, that i
was perfect for Him, that He could see me ...
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Reply to Read the Fine Print 23.1.2004
I now where You are coming from - but reading profiles is
not a strong point of M/most on alt. Yes, they A/all like
to glance through them, but what they are looking at/for
is beyond Me. I have had a couple of subs on alt, and each time
they have changed their profiles to indicate that they
are with Me, and have no desire to meet or cyber with any Other.
Does that stop the wannabee Doms ...
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The sooner the better saves hearts 6.1.2004
Always remember when you break up with somebody that you
can drag it out or wait, becasue it wont go away. You always
need to be honest and true to yourself and you partner. Thats
how I remain friends with all my ex's. But treating
them with respect and caring and being a friend even after
we've broken up.
<br>
If you've beenbroken up wiht, value their honesty
and their ...
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Breaking up without hurting 2.1.2004
I have realized that my boyfriend and I are not right for
each other. We are different people with different beliefs,
neither of us is a bad person. I just see no future in "us",
but I so don't want to hurt him. He really has done nothing
wrong, and I know he loves me deeply, and I do love him, but
I am feeling so stifled, so trapped. I feel I need my freedom
back, that a serious ...
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re: Help me understand this. Why does he need more? 2.1.2004
My heart goes out to you, finding out that your Dominant
"needs more." I thought about this situation
earlier today, and no one can answer for anyone else. I believe
that my Dominant has been unfaithful to me. He doesn't
want to say, but I forgive him because I cannot imagine life
without him and no, more than that. He is who he is and may
have needs I can't comprehend. Your Dominant ...
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How not to break up. 25.12.2003
One night, I was considering leaving my girlfriend of 11
months, and she came over unannounced. So we decided that
the tv was rubbish and we should have some fun, so after some
foreplay we started to have sex, after less than a minute
I shouted out, "Kirsty!", one of our friends,
I couldn't believe it but my other half didnt seem to
notice. So I put my head deep in the pillow and bit down ...
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RE: Help me understand this... 25.12.2003
I can offer assistance by tossing out questions to help
you sort through this, but first let me say, I can only answer
one of your posted questions. (The others only you and he
can answer.)--NO, you are not stupid for feeling hurt.
Stupid does not come into play where any of our human emotions
are concerned...
<br>
Questions: Was there a mutual agreement made for exclusivity?
...
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Dear S., I shall try to keep this brief... 7.12.2003
It is extraordinarily difficult to even break off a ‘temporary’
connection with someone and some pitiful snivelling part
of me feels that it must be even harder when that connection
has been a bdsm one …
<br>
<br>
Dear S…,
<br>
To use similar words to ones you wrote to me not so long ago,
‘I shall try to keep this brief and write as words
flow ...
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be respectful but honest! 1.12.2003
the reason i'm writing this is because i had been chatting
with a slave who agreed to moved here from another country.
he lied to me, led me on by saying he rally wanted to be with
me and wanted to start a new life with me. i had told him from
the start that i wasn't into cyber that i was looking
4 a R/T slave. instead of him telling me the truth that he
was just a "player" instead he told ...
1 Kommentare, 59 Angesehen,
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Your widest fantasy remains just that... 12.11.2003
I had hoped you would be my mirror, but it's apparent
that it won't be you. The only room you seem to have in
your reality, is room for fantasy. And that's not what
I'm looking for. There's too much at stake to continue
comprising. We're coming down the backside of the
mountain, and time is short. And the last relationship
that I have in my life, will not only be the very best, but
it ...
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never complete breakup 3.11.2003
They'v got you by the balls for life.She, s got pic, s
of you on your knees eating ass, your face in a toilet, chuging
down lots of piss.I ran into woman i had worshiped a few times
at gas station, she took the $45 I had went to her car saying
get busy fuce face.I ate her asshole for 30min see her in
2 more yrs.
0 Kommentare, 111 Angesehen,
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RE:Submissive vs girlfriend 27.9.2003
I am 48 never married no kids and my last D/s relationship
was my relationship. She was my love, girlfriend, friend
and playmate. And yes, underlining it all she was my submissive,
slut, whore and anything it pleased me to make of my property.
So I understand why you would want more. And it is so nice
to adore your vanilla partnership and know that your private
partnership is ruled by him.
0 Kommentare, 82 Angesehen,
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Soon Baby, We'll have to Say Good-bye. 18.9.2003
You are all that I could ever want in a man, a Dom and a life
partner. I trust you as much as I have trusted the one family
member that was so very special and so important to my life
delvelopment. As you have been. And I know that I have been
somewhat important to you, as well. And that means the absolute
world to me. And the more that I opened up to you, the better
it became. You are ...
0 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
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What I miss most 17.8.2003
What I miss most about my Master. As the days go by, I remember
our times together, I remember the scenes, the times
we shared. I walk alone now, missing Him all the more, as
I remember. Sex I can take care of myself, I did not need Him
to be able to physically feel. What I miss the most was giving
of my mind and soul. Knowing that my body, mind and soul belonged
to Him and I had no ...
0 Kommentare, 63 Angesehen,
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Once upon a time... 14.8.2003
Once upon a time,
<br>
a handsome, daring Scorpio man met and began a relationship
with a beautiful, sexy Aries woman. Neither was expecting
to have an affair such as this. The sparks flew from their
very first meeting, and they grew those sparks into a raging
inferno of sexuality and emotion. They gave to each other
all that they had, their bodies, their hearts, their souls.
...
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Master dropped by slave? 31.7.2003
Just a bit of advise to All of You out there who are looking
for slaves and subs from a slightly bitter Master. BE CAREFUL!
I just ended a relationship with a very promising slave,
actually she ended it. If You find a slave who is very wild
and spontanious, unless you can be there 24/7 to break them
or their rebeliousness, do not bother. It will be better
for the both of Y/you that way. I ...
0 Kommentare, 43 Angesehen,
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a note to You 22.7.2003
things that could have been,
sometimes just aren't...
i have learned the world is
what i want it to be.
we are what we are and
what this life has made us.
this hasn't been easy, but,
it's made me much stronger
for that and many reasons
i thank you
my Mentor...i thank you for letting me find my way
and mend my wounds.
<br>
i hhope it brings happiness to you
...
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Dom occupied elsewhere 30.5.2003
I had my first experience with a Dom about a month ago. Being
new to the lifestyle, I communicated my hard lines and he
his. We talked and finally met. He was attractive and had
a great sense of humor. After much talking throughout the
evening, I decided that it would be o.k. for him to teach
me certain aspects of the Dom/Sub relationship.
I was with him for two days and it was great. I ...
0 Kommentare, 88 Angesehen,
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Don't wound her! 12.4.2003
Paraphrasing the movie Imperial Scandals: "A Slave
is a noble animal... don't wound her... kill her quickly!"
meaning don't go beating around the bush... say things
straight without delay or adornment as soon as the situation
is such that it can't go on further. However I ought
to add that if you reach such a situation with a Slave that
has already Surrendered totally to you (and isn't ...
0 Kommentare, 44 Angesehen,
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I made a mistake, I am very sorry.... 4.3.2003
To My Master:
<br>
I love you. I want to be your slave forever and ever.
But I have needs you don't want to meet.
You ignore my dreams, yet tell me to dream.
You ignore my hopes, yet tell me to seek hope.
You have told me you will never love me and that
you will never marry me.
You have told me you don't want kids, yet you know how
much I desire children. You have ...
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an appoligy in advance 15.12.2002
to all those men who email me
<br>
im really still a child and though that is no excuse for my
actions it is the reason why sometimes i act the way i do.
i may seem to always be wriggling my finger "cum hether"
but really i dont want anyone to get close... ive been hurt
(like everyone else) and im still trying to put the pieces
back together.
<br>
anyway i hope youll ...
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To my dear Mistress 8.12.2002
This message I write, I know makes no sense to most people
it is meant for my Mistress. I still feel your control after
everything we have done to each other. I’m still
thinking about you and still feel owned and your property.
I am your slave at your feet where I belong, you are my queen
im ready. To be the slave you can be proud of .
Sincerely,
Slave 20000
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I love you but I had to let you go... 5.11.2002
I thought I will finally meet the man of my life. It all started
with exchanging e-mails then phone calls and finally we
decided to meet. He is 15 years older than me(I thought)and
he is really a gentle person. We made love on our first date
and it is really wonderful. He is a perfect gentleman and
I was really treated like a queen, he pampered me everything.
<br>
Then one ...
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Apology to Cruel_Lord 15.4.2002
My dear Sir, i seem to always make you angry with me. I do this
unintentionally, believe me. It is just so hard to get over
your first Dom. We could have been very good together, but
i panicked and ran away, twice. Now you have no wish to even
talk to me, and that makes me very sad. I am here to publicly
apologize for my behaviour the last few weeks, and i vow
that i shall do everything ...
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